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  • Disclaimer:

    This site was designed to convey hope. We made the changes because God led us to make these changes and the results are miraculous! Are our kids perfect? By all means no! But we offer an abundance of grace and forgiveness. Are we perfect as parents? Not at all – we make our share of mistakes; but God offers us an abundance of grace and forgiveness.

    We realize that sometimes our children will still make choices that are less than what we want for their lives (see Cain and Abel) but we firmly believe that they have a better chance with this radical approach.

    We hope that this website will be an encouragement to you. Check out our Homeschool Section, go the the Contact Page and give us your ideas (we love to hear other success stories), pray about your own home values, look for solutions in the parenting section, read some articles.

    We added a new section that was not previously there when we developed this site in 2008. The Fighting Man (TFM) discusses the problems that we face today due to habits and behaviors developed from difficult trials. By identifying these traits and offering solutions, we hope to encourage you to have more peace in your relationships with others. This link will send you to our sister site: Kat's Musings.

    We pray that your families will benefit from this fellowship of believers who want to make a difference in their children’s lives.

  • and More Disclaimer!

    This website is not meant to instill guilt or condemnation. Jesus came not to condemn, but to save the world (Romans 8:1, John 3:17).

    Our aim is to provide an alternate way of parenting that has been applied in our lives with great results, thanks be to Our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. We have chosen to stand firm then, submit to God (first and foremost) and resist the devil with the promise that he WILL flee (James 4:7).

    Our approach to parenting has been a very radical approach. The reason for this is because I watched my two older children, Christopher and Melissa, stray even with biblical principles taught in the home. As I watched my third child, Jared, begin the same path, I got angry! Not at him, but at the results. Therefore, what we are presenting here is *our way* of that radical parenting. I realize that each child and situation is different; however, I also realize that despite the challenges in our lives (abuse, divorce, anger issues), all five children are now emotionally healthy and walking God's path for them.

    Do they have choice? Yes! But they also realize that with that choice comes consequences.

    God bless you with His Spirit of Wisdom and Revelation as you ask for His guidance in your path as a parent!